Nonviolent communication

Nonviolent communication

self-expression and empathy

Nonviolent Communication is a method created by American psychologist Marshall Roseberg that guides practitioners in reframing how they express themselves, how to hear others and resolve conflicts by focusing on what they are observing, feeling, needing, and requesting. It is a tool that leads us toward compassionate connection between people in which everyone’s needs are valued and are met through collaboration. Through Nonviolent Communication, conflict resolution becomes easier, avoiding simple disputes and resolving difficult ones more effectively.

In Creatosphere, our main approach to learning are experiential learning and learning by doing. The different processes are designed in a way that the participants are first experiencing themselves the methods that they will be trained to use. After that, they have moments for reflection, followed by a conclusion and applying the new knowledge to the context they live in.

When we get people to experience a certain quality of connection to the pain that’s been inside a long time, it can be rapidly transformed. Simulations in pair or in groups can be quite beneficial to understanding one’s own and other people’s emotions. Because our training is based on the assumption that all violent language is a tragic expression of unmet needs, zoning out of our own emotions can help us see the situation from the side and assess it more clearly.

Nonviolent communication, workshops sofia
Nonviolent communication, workshops sofia

At Creatosphere, we offer workshops on nonviolent communication and empathy giving, as well as nonviolent communication through puppet theater. We hold the frame for participants to explore connection to themselves, as well as self-expression and empathy. Coming to this workshop, you can expect interactive discussions, exchange of experiences and new ideas on how to build more fruitful relationships without resorting to violence or aggression. We believe that any effort to improve our communication skills is a step towards a more harmonious and understanding society.

Did you know? A systematic review of research as of 2013 analyzed 13 studies picked from 2,634 citations. Eleven of these suggested an increase in empathy subsequent to the application of nonviolent communication. As of 2017, fifteen master’s theses and doctoral dissertations are known to have tested the model on sample sizes of 108 or smaller and generally have found the model to be effective. A 2014 study examined the effects of combined NVC and mindfulness training on 885 male inmates of the Monroe Correctional Complex in Monroe, Washington, United States. The training was found to reduce recidivism from 37% to 21%, and was estimated as having saved the state $5 million per year in reduced incarceration costs. The training was found to increase equanimity, decrease anger, and lead to abilities to take responsibility for one’s feelings, express empathy, and to make requests without imposing demands.

Individuals’ social and emotional needs include needs of praise, respect, love, affection, achievement and so on. Strong caring relationships result in healthy and better life, while poor relationships may promote a sense of not belonging, as well as mental health problems. Daily talk and actions may intentionally or unintentionally reflect a kind of violence that can disrupt relationships and ruin the healthy environment. With Creatosphere, we aim to promote a healthier style of communication where all parties feel heard and appreciated, and pave the way for a more empathetic society. Join one of our Nonviolent communication workshops and dive deeper into understanding human emotions and needs, as well as expressing them to others and hearing their own.

The nonviolent communication workshops are led by Toni Lyubenova, a social artist passionate about communication and building communities, who focuses on exploring how human connections functions through creative exercises, embodiment and lots of time for reflection. Toni was the project manager and trainer of “Nonviolent communication through puppet theater” Erasmus+ training course, which happened in February 2024 with Association Alter Network.

Nonviolent communication, workshops sofia

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Transforming Conflict: Playfight & Nonviolent Communication

What if conflict is not the enemy, but a door? A door to deeper understanding, connection, and personal power. In the international training “Transforming Conflict: Playfight and Nonviolent Communication,” 32 youth workers dared to walk through this door—not with lectures, but with movement, sincerity, and play. What happened when the language of empathy met the power of the body? The results exceeded expectations. And left a mark that is already changing communities.

Art for social change – or why there’s no other way to do it

This article explores why true social change must be rooted in nonviolence, and how creative practices like Nonviolent Communication, puppet theater, and legislative theater help communities transform conflict into connection. Through stories and reflections, we uncover how art becomes not just a message, but a method- bold, empathetic, and deeply human.

Connections: Reconnecting through movement – Erasmus+ Training Course

Two participants sent by Creatosphere took part in the Erasmus+ training course “Connections” in Barcelona, diving into nonviolent communication and somatic methods through movement and deep listening. Set in the serene nature of Gualba, the course offered a transformative experience of reconnection—with self, body, and others.

Nonviolent communication practice: Empathy Practice

What truly separates and connects us in communication? At our gathering, we explored how Nonviolent Communication (NVC) helps us listen deeply, recognize feelings and needs, and transform conflicts into understanding. Going through different processes we were reminded about the power of being heard without judgment. Going through decoding pseudo-feelings to stepping into different perspectives, each moment brought us closer to more authentic connections. This is just the beginning—feel welcome to take part when more gatherings will take place, as we’ll continue to explore the language of empathy

Authenticity Workshop

On October 26th, Creatosphere held its first full-day workshop on honesty and connection. Nine of us gathered in a cozy house in Dragalevtsi, Sofia, to learn about Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and Radical Honesty. Led by Toni Lyubenova and Kris Filipiuk, we explored how to express ourselves openly and build stronger relationships. We learned about the Iceberg of Needs and Feelings, shared a delicious lunch, and practiced being honest while staying mindful of others. It was a day of learning, connection, and growth—our first of many workshops to come!
A lovely picture of Creatosphere's Puppetmaking Workshop on April at Sofia's Cafe Club Compass

Create your puppet

On April 26, 2024, Creatosphere hosted a magical evening of fun and creativity with the ‘Create Your Puppet’ workshop. It was led by the talented puppet actress Silvia Teneva, participants transformed lonely socks into unique puppets, sharing laughter and creativity in a warm and welcoming atmosphere. Join us next time and learn how to create your own puppet and then learn how to combine it with nonviolent communication in action!
A photo of participants in ЕмоциON: A workshop about Nonviolent Communication that took place in March at Aleko Konstantinov Community Center 1897

EmotiON

We got the fantastic opportunity to present our first-ever event, ЕмoциON, at the Aleko Konstantinov Community Center in Sofia, Bulgaria, on March 2, 2024. 26 people gathered to learn about Nonviolent Communication, a technique that combines awareness, connection, and empathy to promote a more peaceful society. Toni, Tony, Eli, and Ani, who had trained in Brno, enthusiastically offered their knowledge. The program included participatory activities, personal connections, and informative talks, leaving everyone motivated and eager to apply NVC ideas in their daily lives. This debut event marked the start of Creatosphere’s journey to create a community focused on personal improvement.
A great picture of the Creatosphere founders Anton Toshev and Toni Lyubenova who were the guest speakers of Jivko Krustev, one of the voices of the bulgarian radio Focus

Nonviolent Communication: Interview with Radio Focus

“By knowing our emotions, we know ourselves. Everyone has needs and they are universal. Emotions exist to help us understand them and yet satisfy them in one way or another. Nonviolent communication speaks about our needs being universal and our feelings being quite similar, but the strategies we use to meet our needs can be very different. Conflicts arise at the level of strategies – our strategy may conflict with the other person’s strategy to get our needs met. But the moment we understand what the other person feels, what they need, then our conversation is much easier,” explained Toni Lyubenova.

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